Rafael was a very active boy and known by all. She radiated happiness and always a smile outlined by talking to him. And hinted at school its great capacity at the time of making friends, and college was one of the most popular kids. Enjoyed a large number of friends, people I would have given everything for him and he had great esteem.
On vacation still did not stop one minute, since childhood was always the same. Out with friends of urbanization where her family summered, and returned to the preset time with their parents. Upon awakening came back with friends and rare was the time spent at home to eat.
Over the years this conduct remained the same. She loved being surrounded by his friends. It took a bride 16 years his group of friends, but whenever I went it was with the rest of the group.
When Rafael went adolescence and entered the youth, he began to see his friends threw Bride ( he had no longer need it), or went abroad to study. In addition, many of these friends were playing with the computer or game console, thing that Rafael did not like at all. So that afternoon was spent completely alone. When the evening ended, Rafael was anxious to leave home, his family used to go to the villa of urbanization throughout the weekend and he was trying to find a plan with any of those friends who were still available. Sometimes I succeeded, but the days it was not possible, in the evenings spent enormous anxiety. He felt trapped at home and have no one company will increasingly overwhelmed. I did not know to be alone.
The story described refers to a very sociable boy from childhood, he had learned to share everything with your friends, to live it all with his people, but that over time had become a real waste of time to live alone. The subject that I would like to talk about today, is quite controversial and can listen to opinions of all kinds but I want to reflect mine. I think
socialize is central to achieving most goals INMESA we want to achieve in life, indeed I think we should have an active social life and maintain healthy friendships throughout it.
Still think there is an aspect that never hear about that when I hear it is always negative, and I think it's critical to manage. That aspect is the Soledad. If you type "lonely" in google images, images that appear are in full sad.
understand that loneliness can be understood in many ways. Loneliness gets an old man when it is ignored by his family is sad. Loneliness suffered by a person even when surrounded by people, is truly sad. Rafael loneliness living at home when none of his friends could stay, feel sorry for you?
Well, in my point of view I think the loneliness of these cases is determined in a way of mismanagement . We do not know to be alone, we have not been programmed to do so, we have been programmed to live in community.
The old man can stop living this solitude if you know handle it, another case is that there are other emotions such as anger at his abandonment not be allowed to easily get out of that situation. But in all cases if we we knew ourselves perfectly, we would know to enjoy the solitude.
Learning to live alone is essential to achieve the success we seek in our lives and our primary goal, happiness. It affects us in every aspect. For example, people tell you that communication is vital to the others, but do not say is equally important is communication with ourselves , as the main enemy to achieve what we want is our self-limitations. Knowing oneself
greatly facilitates the way to achieve what we want.
not forget that no other person in the world with which we will spend more time in this life than ourselves. We meet, talk, understand what we feel and why we feel it, hear from time to time, spend much more time alone and enjoy those moments.
Being single should not mean boring, but a perfect time to reflect, think of those things that concern us and what we see feasible solutions.
is very important to have an active social life, but it is equally important to enjoy the moments that we own and use them to get to know ourselves better and able to manage.
"Knowing others is intelligence, knowing yourself is true wisdom. Leading others is STRENGTH, address yourself is true power" Lao Tze
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