Hello again!
As you know in this era of tests, it is very difficult to find time to write articles themselves, but if I can take some time for us to continue enriching and learning with recommended items for you or your own articles .
In the last article we talked of love, and to continue with this line of sentimental emotions and how we can affect our way, I suggest you read the following article today by Anna Fortea, Coach, writer YOUCOACH (Coaching magazine), reading the blog and my partner.
For you see that that is my partner does not affect my opinion about the article, which ye yourselves comprobaréis how good it is.
From next week, will return to resume the blog with my items, until then, I hope your contributions, the truth, are really good for now.
EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY - BY ANNA teriparatide
dependence we do not stops breathing, we do not realize but we caught every time we need someone else to give us the nod to everything we do. Currently, a large percentage of society that depends on another person emotionally. May not have noticed, but it is. And we have only to stop and observe.
Those couples who do not come off for anything, go everywhere together, do not go with other people unless you go two, would never travel without your other half, because there would not be comfortable able to enjoy the scenery, company, or any of the attractions that could have that experience, because they lack something and that person is, the unconsciously monitor all their actions. By not being together, do not feel capable of making decisions, however small they are. Such people tend to question the independent relationships as it does not seem "normal" that everyone can enjoy their own hobbies on their own, they can decide based on their own criteria. They do not understand the concept of independence and partnership, as this type of dependency is sanctified by our culture (do you want!).
Another example, which certainly has happened to us all, is a typical absorbent friend who calls us several times a day to ask any question about their daily actions, if pone la camisa negra o la roja, si para ir a un lugar toma un camino u otro, etc.
También existe dependencia en las relaciones familiares, sobre todo entre madres e hijos. Esas madres que no dejan que sus hijos abandonen el nido, negativizando la independencia al máximo, haciéndole ver lo dura que es la vida sin la seguridad de la familia (… cuando tengas que pagar la luz, el agua, el recibo del gas, etc.…). Y también a la inversa, la dependencia de los hijos hacia sus madres, los que no abandonan el hogar por temor a tener que tomar sus propias decisiones, y se ponen miles de excusas a sí mismos para justificarse.
Estos son sólo algunos examples, the agency is constantly present in our lives, no more than listening to the radio, songs like "If you're not here" for Rosana, "I can not live without you" Coke Maya, "I need" de Amaral, including many others, and not just on the radio, it is also interesting to look at dialogs from movies and series that we see daily, and as I said before, are perfectly acceptable in our society.
In this article, it is my intention that I desvinculéis of your partners, friends or family, on the contrary!. Just pretend that we do an exercise, we begin to take our own decisions without anyone but our sole discretion to make a list of pros and cons, and we solve the issue ourselves. At first it is difficult, but it will not do as you go take your own decisions, I liberáis of many tensions that even you knew you had. Remember that it is much nicer to enjoy a relationship where neither party is dependent on the other, you are much happier and you will be inclined to make others happy. I ask you to try it and I contéis how was the experience, you'll see how soon you notice a change not only in yourself, but also people around you, they will not know why, but I also feel better.
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